查看完整版本: 坚持就是胜利，我的考研日记

danceice,这两天我也在犹豫新概念背诵是否应该坚持下去，原因和你列的一样。不可否认，我们现在所有的努力都是为了对付考试，感觉新概念背诵除了对作文有些许帮助，好像对考研的意义不是太大。
想将新概念背诵转为历年真题阅读研读与背诵，不知我是不是太过于心急？
另外，关于历年真题阅读解析近来看了一本新东方的，不知你是否看过？感觉如何？该解析主要偏向于阅读里的词汇和长难句分析。

Irene0304

     我还没看进入看真题的阶段，因为之前看了两三年的阅读用得也许就是你说的那本新东方的。但我还没有看解析，只是做一下，检验一下自己的应试水平。觉得真题挺难的。我做速度也很慢（根本就快不起来），错得也多（理解不了）。这时有人都劝告我不要过早看真题，因为现在还是打基础的时候。
       所以我的想法是到六月份以后再开始看真题。现在还是按原计划进行。六月份后对真题也想先练习一遍再啃。我觉得朱的指导好就好在这点，先是基础，而后单项练习的习题就是几乎包括了历年的真题，也有讲解，而且有05年的真题作摸拟。 这个进度就安排的很好。
   
     我觉得我们这样交流起来很好，也很喜欢与你交流。

[quote]Originally posted by [i]Irene0304[/i] at 2005-5-10 01:03 PM:
danceice,这两天我也在犹豫新概念背诵是否应该坚持下去，原因和你列的一样。不可否认，我们现在所有的努力都是为了对付考试，感觉新概念背诵除了对作文有些许帮助，好像对考研的意义不是太大。
想将新概念背诵转 ... [/quote]
刚才看完新概念3第32课，感觉和你一样，是否再把它当成复习的主要任务。我想在以后的复习中仅把它当成阅读材料，学习一些单词，注意一下长句结构就可以了。我的星火单词又续借了，原来我还认为自己单词不错，看了星火才发现好多单词的另一层意思我根本就没背，背的只是最常用的意思。星火看起来也挺耗时的，但又不能急。我打算把单词和阅读作为以后英语复习的重点，阅读可能会看石的。另外从图书馆借了本作文指导。

其实，我的计划也是六月份结束朱的辅导前基础部分（到阅读部分），然后再看真题，只是我现在上的辅导班，老师现在着重针对历年真题进行解析。
朱的书特别是语法知识等基础部分，挺细的，但是如果针对研读历年真题，该书就显得稍粗糙点（个人意见）。


[quote]Originally posted by [i]danceice[/i] at 2005-5-10 02:04 PM:
Irene0304

     我还没看进入看真题的阶段，因为之前看了两三年的阅读用得也许就是你说的那本新东方的。但我还没有看解析，只是做一下，检验一下自己的应试水平。觉得真题挺难的。我做速度也很慢（根本就快不 ... [/quote]

星火的词汇个人感觉挺不错的，很细，记完后挺有成就感的。

Sunny              Tuesday, may 10th, 2005   

   Today is a dissatisfied day. A friend come to visit me, we talked for the better part of the day. When I went home, my daughter was so naughty and I had to take time to look after her that I felt very gloomy.
   I too like chatting with the others to concentrate on my study, but in a young woman who has known joys and sorrows, and has experienced whatever people it was in her to meet, have the kind of meaningless chat is somewhat abject and ignoble.
   There are still many similar things of which difficult to conceive in your life; sometimes, you must learn to adequate put a stopper on your mouth; it is an exhibition of good manner to be accustomed to keep silence in spite of being loved or being ignored.
   You always complain about this and that thing, but you never do any thing about it. Well, don’t rethink these irrelevances; to the best of your ability make the best of a bad bargain. I came on the chance that you could get your desirable; you should face the future with confidence. If I try my best to do, I feel confident of passing the exam.
     Please concentrate on what you are doing; you should confine yourself to the matter under way.

     read   5 pages of instrction  , reviewed 4 pieces of reading
     the passage of  new concept 4 was uncompleted

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我去年英语考的不好，下面是我对英语学习的一些想法请大家给点意见和建议：

我觉得先背单词，单词差不多了就看历年的真题，反复看几次真题，再从时间上把握－－做几份模拟题，练手。

至于新概念真的不错，但是我觉得不要太学的精细了，只作为阅读的材料就可以了。还有石哥的220也是作为泛读的材料。因为，我 以前上辅导班的老师说，主要是精读真题，分析真题，再重复真题，把握出题的思路，就差不多了。

老朱的书词汇部分必须看吗？

我去年英语考的不好，主要是没有时间看（我考数学一，时间全给了她，结果还是不理想）今天跟领导说辞职了，估计5月23日左右就能离开单位了。这样就有充分的时间看书了。

[[i] Last edited by icandobetter on 2005-5-12 at 09:03 [/i]]

[quote]Originally posted by [i]icandobetter[/i] at 2005-5-11 03:06 PM:
我去年英语考的不好，下面是我对英语学习的一些想法请大家给点意见和建议：

我觉得先背单词，单词差不多了就看历年的真题，反复看几次真题，再从时间上把握－－做几份模拟题，练手。

至于新概念真的不错， ... [/quote]ou
Thanks for your pure-hearted  suggestion; i think i can do according to it.:P


Sunny                Wednesday, may 11th, 2005

     I had been tidy up the photograph what I took during the periods of labor day these days, and didn't be disgusted with it to choose some good-looking photos from them again and again in order to send to my mother and elder sister. This was really to cost my not a few time, and I was swayed by considerations of gain and lose. Even though at the time of I was reading the book on computer I cannot help opening the electronics photo album to take a look at intervals, as a result the efficiency of study was imaginable low. I love beauty, very anxious to make everybody see my beauty in my own conceit, come with this I will show off my beauty at best advantage. When I think me very beautiful, I will infatuate with the narcissistic feeling, and indulge in self-admiration. In fact, in my mind it is really very clear, the motion of this kind of vainglory is some absurd. Even if I have ever considered myself is a beautiful woman, but the beauty had been vanished. Though my ego feel is very good, perhaps in other people's eyes it is also an even and mediocre. Probably at the time of I am looking at my photograph complacently, the other people perhaps and only feel funny. So chase time in these senseless things is waste of time; it can't improve my living appearance, what I should do is only study, study, and study.  

     
      Time that I study is too little. it is often the case that the efficient time which I can really study is not beyond three or four hours everyday, but, for my this kind of foundation to say, the time is far not enough.

       Yesterday’s solutions are not always applicable to today’s problems; you must find new method to adapt to the new change.

        5 pages of instruction     lesson 30 , 31(reading)

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[quote]Originally posted by [i]danceice[/i] at 2005-5-11 11:46 PM:
ou
Thanks for your pure-hearted  suggestion; i think i can do according to it.:P


Sunny                Wednesday, may 11th, 2005

     I had been tidy up the photograph what I took during t ... [/quote]
你一定是个美丽而自信的女人，从前是，现在也是。你才来几天大家就很喜欢你，希望你自信果断的气息能传递给我们。我能想象全天在家里学习的状况，能学4，5个小时就不错了，但保证这段时间的效率高。辞职考肯定会有压力，即使是好朋友的拜访带来的信息也会让我们心绪不宁。能不见客最好不见，尤其是打击我们信心的客人。我平时最怕人来我家了，毕竟自己的时间安排得好好的，不愿被别人打乱。昨天邻居带孩子来了，说是和我家小孩一起认字，而且要一星期至少学两天。我的天，要是我不考，这到是个好办法。但我没跟她说，我知道她准会打击我说些年龄大什么的，看情况吧，尽量把认字时间推到周末。

[quote]Originally posted by [i]鹤鸣九皋[/i] at 2005-5-12 09:57 AM:

你一定是个美丽而自信的女人，从前是，现在也是。你才来几天大家就很喜欢你，希望你自信果断的气息能传递给我们。我能想象全天在家里学习的状况，能学4，5个小时就不错了，但保证这段时间的效率高。辞职考肯定 ... [/quote]


呵呵，同感~~~：)

谢谢鹤鸣九皋与玫瑰的鼓励与夸奖，真是让我又感动又惭愧。

windy                 Thursday, may 12th, 2005

   This afternoon, i came off duty ahead of schedule. As soon as I came back home i took my daughter to go to dig the earthworm at the foot of the bid tree at our yard for feeding the duckling.Before long, my husband came back home, and then we took our daughter and the other kids in the yards to do the hide-and-seek of game. Every time I see my daughter doing many interesting things and hear her speak words of logic like an adult, I am so happy and surprised because she is only 21 months old.

    read  5 pages of instruction
   reread  n-e-c lesson 33
  roughly  read  three pieces of passages

rainy turn to windy             Friday, may 13th, 2005
   

   I am already fed up this work as well as all related things. But one friend of mine came visit me again today. Since she is also an accountant, is a serious and inquisitorial woman, but her knowledge of specialty is very short, So she wasn’t always tire of to consult me on many question of work, as a result I had to explain to her patiently that I was in no mood for study, even I had no time to do what I want to do. I thought I am really earnest and vain. These all made me very hate myself.
    In fact, If you can calm down then you will find the beauty of life. Yes, eventually, I calmed down to read book after dinner, and enjoyed listening some classic songs with my husband at the same time. It was really a happy time. I thought I can go on another day in a good mood.

completed 10 pages of instruction   (read roughly)   
N-E-C lesson 32 (read roughly) is uncompleted

    I had consulted with my husband for that I will not take my daughter out of door to play tomorrow; I hope for I can have more time to study so as to make up the fault of today. So I should complete the NEC lesson 34, and 10pages of instruction, and three pieces of reading tomorrow.

    Make an extra effort to do!

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我05在家看书考研，效率很低，彻低失败了。06吸取教训，一起努力！QQ:65306323

在这个论坛上能够认识这么多考研妈妈，看到大家虽然已经为人母为人妻，但仍然坚持不懈的为了自己的理想而努力，就觉得倍受感动，danceice我佩服你辞职的勇气，我是在职，工作不是很累，但属于那种熬时间那种，看了你的帖子，发现你进度挺快的，而我就不行了。速度极慢，而且连着学习两天之后心里就开始烦躁，我的这种情绪让我非常苦恼，愿考研路上共勉励！

[quote]Originally posted by [i]liwanxian[/i] at 2005-5-14 08:42 PM:
我05在家看书考研，效率很低，彻低失败了。06吸取教训，一起努力！QQ:65306323 [/quote]

     作为考研妈妈，生活中总是有这样那样的牵绊，似乎处处都会分散我的的精力，我们也别人更容易找到借口。所以我们需要比常人付出更多大的决心与更大的努力，你付出了，就有回报。
    很高兴能与你一起努力。

[quote]Originally posted by [i]wk13783772943[/i] at 2005-5-14 09:56 PM:
在这个论坛上能够认识这么多考研妈妈，看到大家虽然已经为人母为人妻，但仍然坚持不懈的为了自己的理想而努力，就觉得倍受感动，danceice我佩服你辞职的勇气，我是在职，工作不是很累，但属于那种熬时间那种，看 ... [/quote]
       谢谢你的支持，但事实上我的进度实在是很慢。效率也很低。不过我也正在努力改变这种状况。[em:4]
      在我看来在职比辞职更需要勇气，因为它更加磨练一个人的意志与精力。有志者，事竟成，既然我们选择了远方，就注定要风雨兼程。我们在考研路上相互扶携吧！

        Life is measured by thought and action, not by time.

                                                Sir.John lubbock (1834-1913)

cloudy             Saturday, may 14th, 2005

  My plans didn’t completely go into practice today, because I occupied myself in playing with my daughter this morning. Though I was supposed to study the whole day, I had to company my daughter to park with my husband all morning, because I was actuality unable to refuse my husband’s request under the stick and carrot, and that my daughter is so lovely that I felt under an obligation to give pleasure to her as much as possible. Of course, the scenery of the park was so beautiful; we all played very happily, but my plans of study were made a mess.

       I began to read near upon 4:00 in the afternoon. After roughly completed four pieces of reading comprehension I found that I was merely able to give three right answers each passage, and I felt so stubborn for interpreting that I didn’t almost do this type of exercise. Even now I still found the efficiency of study at home is better than that of at office, so I really hope for I can be relieved of my job as soon as possible.

      To N-E-C, now I haven’t regarded it as an emphasis, but I couldn’t still give up it, so I have taken a natural attitude toward it.   

   reread N-E-C lesson 34
   roughly fulfilled 4 pieces of reading comprehension
   roughly fulfilled 10 pages of instruction

  the follow scheme
   unit 4 of reading comprehension
   lesson 35 of N-E-C
   10 pages of instrction

5月15日        晴           星期日

      啊！啊！啊！我受不了了，昨天下午因为4点才开始看书，所以晚上2点才睡，早上9点过就被公司电话叫醒。梳洗时看到镜子里是巨大的两个黑眼圈，似乎一天之间就消瘦憔悴了许多。自怜了好一会儿。

    上午看新概念没什么效率，我一般刚开始看书的时候都是这样。再加上现在尤其是似乎厌倦了新概念4，大概是因为他的内容我都是看过了的，所以三分钟的热度过后现在它对我完全像个鸡肋。我每天只是盲目的照着书本有电脑上把他打出来而已，就跟在练打字一样。所以我正在准备下个决心，把他打入宫算了，省得影响我的效率。

    接着到下午4点。我做了2篇阅读理解就开始打瞌睡。因为我规定是要下午做4篇阅读。而且答应老公等女儿睡醒带她去购物，游玩。所以不舍得睡觉。谁知效率更差，边打瞌睡边看。真的是什么也没看进。得不偿失。早知用这点时间多睡点觉。看来这方面的经验真是欠缺。所以5点半等女儿醒来硬着头皮去超市购物。我情不自禁买了巨多的山楂，葡萄，酸枣之类的提神的东西。带女儿到楼顶的游乐场玩我也打不起精神，呵欠连天。就这样也逛到8点才回家。吃晚饭。我已经觉得我不能坚持了。写完这篇日记我就要睡觉去了。以后要吸取这个教训。

    今天完成重读新概念35课
    阅读理解2篇。错3题。
    指导没做。
   
    没必要熬了，睡觉去了。明天好好努力。[qq:25]

坚持就是胜利，支持你

请问楼主背的是第几册的新概念？背的效果感觉怎样？

[quote]Originally posted by [i]liwanxian[/i] at 2005-5-15 09:25 PM:
请问楼主背的是第几册的新概念？背的效果感觉怎样？ [/quote]
我背的是新概念4，背得不好，没有真正记住。不过前24课都算是念熟了。正因为背的效果不好，越到后面越是觉得疲惫，越来越怀疑背的必要性。所以现在每天只是看一下，而且觉得越到后面，时间越来越紧，如果把时间都花在它上面了，我就没办法进行专项练习。

2005年5月16日       雨       星期一

      前天晚上没休息好这疲倦感竟然延续到今天，感觉好像病了一样。我知道我需要的是睡眠。看书也不在状态，不过我已经学会不再强求自己。下班回家的路上，透过车窗向外望去，雨后的天空里，阳光透过云层，竟显得格外的明郎，路旁绿树成荫，只可惜这些美景我都多少年不曾注意，曾每每对着天空的形状各异的云彩都可以遐想半天的那个少年，竟逐渐变成了忽略美丽，忽略自然的这样一个行色匆匆的路人。
      浮躁的社会，浮躁的人。

      上午读新概念36课
      下午粗略阅读理解3篇（昨天计划内未完成的）。
      完上粗略完成指导第二章
      
      明天上午复习前面所看的阅读理解，与指导。
      新概念37课。

      好闷，下首歌来听听。

2005年5月17日       阵雨       星期三

      白天做了粗略一些阅读.看了一下新概念.晚上一个今年考上了的到我家来玩. 他今年考得很好,英语没怎么看也考了67分,政治考了83分.数学也考得很好.总分387分.他很真诚也很热情的为我讲了一下学习经验.并帮我调整了一下我的学习计划.所以晚上没看什么书也值了,所谓磨刀不误砍柴工.至少我已经决定彻底舍弃新概念了.不再再上面浪费时间.应该针对考研学习.背跟大纲有关的东西.
     正好他用过的书正是我现在要看的.所以我决心把指导与220篇坚持到底.到时候再加一本真题分析足够了.书不要用得太多,不然看不过来.
     把要看的看精.学了就要掌握,哪怕考过就忘也行.
     英语要分散了学习才有效率,所以可以穿插专业与政治看一下.
     明天严格按新计划执行.

[quote]Originally posted by [i]danceice[/i] at 2005-5-12 11:25 PM:
谢谢鹤鸣九皋与玫瑰的鼓励与夸奖，真是让我又感动又惭愧。

windy                 Thursday, may 12th, 2005

   This afternoon, i came off duty ahead of schedule. As soon as I came back home i took ... [/quote]I like to read your English diaries because
it embodied your notion of your life.I think you are a pretty and wisdom women.Your English seem to be good.You will succeed in passing the
entrance examination of postgraduate.I don't go into sleep now.I know
you are online but not chat with you because I don't find your OICQ number.[qq:25]

[quote]Originally posted by [i]liwanxian[/i] at 2005-5-18 12:58 AM:
I like to read your English diaries because
it embodied your notion of your life.I think you are a pretty and wisdom women.Your English seem to be good.You will succeed in passing the
entrance  ... [/quote]
Oh, dear, thanks for you can read my so-called English diaries with your patience; thanks for your support and inspiration. I deeply know that the  level of my Enlish is very low, and i deeply know i will make much mistake on phrasing. I have been wrote several Enlish diaries in my good mood, but i dare not write more because i am afraid that the others will sniff at me and laugh at me.  Your words give me huge encouragement that drive me making up my mind to carry over. It is very kind of you inspirit me; thank you!
    The number of my OICQ is 1083673, but i almost never use it in the time of preparing for the exam. So, let's have intercommunion in the forum.:):):)

这位大姐的文笔震得很不错，加油吧，看得出来你是个很出色的人，有信心，没什么事情不可以

sunny  May 18th,2005  Thursday

   On the whole, it seemed to as if i almost fulfilled my plan today. As matter of fact,  I radically had no idea concretely what i  wanted to do.
   I got up at 10 o'clock, and then went to office, and then  casual read some composition in the morning. After lunch I began to somewhat serious the  gone over the passages of 220 what i had roughly read. As a result, i probably fulfiled four passages. Maybe this is the most effective hours in the whole day. At night, i read the  phrasal verbs part of instruction, namely the third chapter. At the same time of  my study i listened the beautiful songs with my husband and discussed it. it is conceivable that my reading effect was so low, but, with a bad grace, i just ended the third chapter.
    The emphases to which i pay attention is  perusal for the future, as well as the special exercise. But my plan is very mess at present, i am almost unable to  make a  schedule precisely.

[quote]Originally posted by [i]danceice[/i] at 2005-5-19 12:22 AM:
sunny  May 18th,2005  Thursday

   On the whole, it seemed to as if i almost fulfilled my plan today. As matter of fact,  I radically had no idea concretely what i  wanted to do.
   I got up at ... [/quote]
我感觉我的情况和心境和你的那么像，唯一不像的是你的年龄比我小，你的英语比我好得多，你的精力比我充沛。如果我晚上熬夜，好几天都缓不过来，跟生病似的，可能是太瘦的缘故（166cm，51KG)，经不起折腾。如果你抱着坚定的信念，我想成功会属于你的。前进的路上，携手并进![em:

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[quote]Originally posted by [i]jesscia001[/i] at 2005-5-19 10:12 AM:

我感觉我的情况和心境和你的那么像，唯一不像的是你的年龄比我小，你的英语比我好得多，你的精力比我充沛。如果我晚上熬夜，好几天都缓不过来，跟生病似的，可能是太瘦的缘故（166M，51KG)，经不起折腾。如果你 ... [/quote]
I am so glad to find a sister who similar to me. But your words made me so ashamed, because  my age is almost as much as yours , and especially, my English isn't better than yours. Moreover, I am less energetic than what you imagined. And I am also thin  awfully as you , for i am 167cm in height and  52kg in weight. So, As you can see from these instances, we are really similar very much.[qq:20][qq:20][qq:20]
   All of us have the belief which we must succeed, so let's hard work totegher; we believe the success will  belong to us.[em:4]

[[i] Last edited by danceice on 2005-5-19 at 13:02 [/i]]

sunny  May 19th,2005  Friday

     这个社会就是这样，不管是大环境还是小环境。多少人喜欢标榜，多少人喜欢吹嘘，人人都好这样或那样的虚荣。环境总是逼得人言不由衷，总是让人不敢心无诚府。而且现实不比网络，你不能说实话，也不能太张扬，否则就注定碰得头破血流。哪怕是你认为最亲近的人之间总是如此，当你觉得你可以对他坦诚相对的时候，事实会给你教训让你深刻体会这是极其愚蠢的。有时候我们认为真诚，坦白才叫脱俗，才令人敬爱，可生活却往往给你挫折，殊不知你以为最脱俗的态度往往出自最世俗的积累，世俗的东西往往自有他的道理。为人之道是世俗的，却往往无比实用。那怕是最亲近的人之间也应该适当保持距离，现实不是伊甸园。
    正如这样的一句话，去留无意，恰似庭外闲庭信步；宠辱不惊，漫随天外云卷云舒。在我看来无疑是经历了世俗千锤百炼的最圆滑处世态度，看似脱俗，实则世俗，真是物极必反。
      
     今天完成：
     上午主要随便翻翻作文
     下午复习三篇阅读------一般
    晚上完成 指导第四章前5单元-----勉强

      明天上午公司有事，但至少也要按这个进度完成。

windy  May 20th,2005  Friday

      今天，总部终于来了个处长确定了来接我班的人选。而同时这个处长也告诉我下半年我这个位子要涨工资了。而且同时公司内部重新调整，整个集团重上系统。所以工作量会减轻，财务的权限会加大。而我却要走了，虽然心中有些暗自可惜，想到一年之内都没有收入，此后想要随心所欲花费恐怕都有点心有余而怯怯焉。可又想到我终归是要走的，而且衡量了一下我的实力，如果不走的话，这年是休想考上的。既然这份工作对我已经毫无吸引力，如果多花费一年的时间来赚这点钱，我就完全被金钱奴役，不如还是坦然些吧。要相信自己的能力，相信命运不会薄情于一个不懈于努力奋斗的人。
     今天完成：
     翻作文--------随便写了一下05年的考研作文。虽然我写了几个句子之后，便几乎不能继续写下去。便从书上找了几个套句搬上去，总算溱成了一篇文章。发觉写作文其实挺有意思的，尤其是写出了自已的真正感觉，哪怕写得不好，也挺有意思的。
     下午复习三篇阅读------一般，我觉得这个部份我可以做得更细致一些。也许要调整一下方法，不然的话很难得到提高。
    晚上完成 指导第四章前5单元----- 我做这个题总是显得太浮躁。也许是个太随性的人。不过这个部份不是重点。也许快速把他做完也是必要的。
    今天10点半不到就完成了今天的任务。剩下的时间边听音乐边在网上浏览。大约有一两个小时，我觉得不能把上网想得太可怕。如果能在网上找到一两篇有益于自已的文章，这无疑对我是一种提醐灌顶，深得其益。

[quote]Originally posted by [i]danceice[/i] at 2005-5-21 12:08 AM:
windy  May 20th,2005  Friday

      今天，总部终于来了个处长确定了来接我班的人选。而同时这个处长也告诉我下半年我这个位子要涨工资了。而且同时公司内部重新调整，整个集团重上系统。所以工作量会减轻， ... [/quote]
在别人看来是有点可惜，但对于你，你的价值远远不止这些，交接完后静心复习吧。你是信心和勇气是我们的榜样。

[quote]Originally posted by [i]鹤鸣[/i] at 2005-5-21 06:47 PM:

在别人看来是有点可惜，但对于你，你的价值远远不止这些，交接完后静心复习吧。你是信心和勇气是我们的榜样。 [/quote]

    谢谢你的鼓劢， 这几天都怎么没看到你在线。只是前些天在你的贴子里看到你说你的状态还好，我们一起坚持下去。:):):)
rainy   May 21th,2005  saterday
    早上下了一场阵雨，我却在睡梦中。直到11点半起床，雨早已经停了。陪可爱的女儿玩了一会儿。惊奇的发现一岁九个月的女儿不仅会背完整的童谣，而且还会背完整的唐诗。至于数数啊之类的，她很早便能数到十或二十，也特别喜欢象模像样的帮大家做家事。并没有人认真的教过她。只是她耳濡目染，却就这样记住了，而且毫厘不差。我觉得她真是个聪明的孩子。但我带她带的少，她所以不依恋我，除了奶奶之外，她选的是爸爸。如果爸爸在，我要抱她，她居然会说：“不要妈妈，不要妈妈，我不喜欢妈妈抱，我喜欢爸爸抱。”我只得靠边站，心中难免会有失落。那天带她到院子里荡秋千。我坐在她旁边推她，她急得要命大叫：“妈妈起来，妈妈起来，让爸爸坐，不要妈妈推，要爸爸推”我哭笑不得，只得站起来让她爸爸坐。直到后来我累极了，用商量的口气对她讲：“小伏伏，妈妈好累，让妈妈坐一下，好吗？”她才体贴的点了一下头像个小大人一样对爸爸说：“爸爸，让妈妈坐一下。”她爸爸就起来让我坐，自己去吊单杠去了，被女儿看见了，女儿又急大叫：“爸爸不要吊杠子，不要吊杠子，会摔跤，来荡秋千”（她身边空了一个秋千没人荡）--------这真是让人喜忧参半，喜的是她小小年纪，语言表达能力就很强，忧的是，我这个做妈**真的是很失败。而她爸爸则很得意，因为女儿很体贴他。     
     而我所想的是，尽量在一年之内考上，省得时间推长了，对我女儿更不好了。我的目标是与女儿共同进步，不能委屈了任何一个。

      这天从下午开始看书，翻译两篇220篇里第三单元的阅读，可惜找不到正确的全文翻译，所以也检验不到效时。
      黄昏时全家到院子里去放鸭子，雨后的黄昏空气很好，与女儿一起挖蚯蚓喂鸭子，真是一件有益身心的事情。
      晚上做了5个单元的词汇练习100题。错了很多，汗！
     接着看了一下作文。
      今天还算令人满意的一天吧，虽然睡到中午才起床。
      明天上午带女儿去动物园喂动物，从下午开始看书，至少要完成今天这样的量。切记戒骄戒躁！

也打算考研

但是没有勇气辞职，而且身体不大好，总是在犹豫之中。真佩服辞职考研的人，尤其是年龄超过30岁的女人。我今年30岁，仍然单身，婚姻和考研的事情同样象重任一样压在身上。总希望自己能够坚持下去，虽然学习的过程，有时候真的很痛苦。